MOST THINGS IN LIFE REQUIRE GOOD TIMING
I burn everything at least once. And my kids never let me forget about it. Bread is most often the casualty. Garlic bread, biscuits, toast…especially toast…they all have been singed under my not so watchful care. You may make a great french toast. I make a mean Cajun toast–blackened that is. The difference? Timing. Timing in cooking is indeed everything. Timing in life is everything.
What a difference a day makes
The timing of this post lies almost one week after my daughter’s twelfth birthday. (So forgive any non-sensical wording please. One tends to rebound slowly after dealing with ten to twelve preteen girls hopped up on sugar for several hours.) I love to wake my kids at the midnight that crests their big day. One day my precious girl was eleven and the next–boom–twelve. Just in the matter of a second. How many things in life hinge on one second? Babies are born. Lives are saved by a split second. But how many seconds of our day are wasted on nothingness because we are not paying attention? My assessment, from personal experience, one second too many.
Pay attention to timing
Toast quickly turns from buns to briquettes when we stop paying attention to timing. Life quickly slips by us in the same manner. Missed opportunities. Unseen milestones. Futures altered. Life to death. All in the matter of a moment.
Timing is too precious to forget about.
I am still a novice in this blogosphere, but already I am keenly aware of a few timing lessons.
Timing can place me with the right people at just the right moment, if I pay attention.
Using time wisely will keep me productive and poised, if I pay attention.
Ill use of timing and its principles will cost me dearly with my goals and with my relationships.
Just this morning because of misuse of time, this blog was delayed and if I had not caught myself, I could have missed a precious toddler moment. While trying to redeem my time and focus on finishing my work, I found myself literally pushing my toddler away from me. To my credit, he was about to jump over my head and onto my laptop which would not have been good for either of us. All he wanted, though, was to sit by me. His favorite line now is “Mommy, I need you.” Heart-melting I know. Now add big brown eyes and curly brown hair…miss a moment with that! Not this Momma. That would be bad timing.
So, how’s your timing?
Your life is made of many to do lists and deadlines, moments and madness, that you will have to journey through. Time, your attention to it, how you use it, and how it uses you is something we all need to revisit in our lives. Don’t worry though. It’ll just take a second.
Taking my time and loving it. And always staying,